I have only had one healthy relationship in my life. The others were emotionally/mentally abusive, sexually repressive, and/or based entirely on lies. I never realized how largely these relationships affected all aspects of my life. I can finally say that while I am still recovering, I am in a MUCH BETTER place. And it feels wonderful.
"Don’t wear a hoodie if you don’t want to be mistaken for a criminal and shot."
"Don’t get drunk at a party if you don’t want to be sexually assaulted."
"Don’t argue with a cop if you don’t want to get killed."
"Don’t walk home by yourself if you don’t want to get raped."
Victim blaming 101: Everyone should live in fear from ever doing anything.